Sunday, May 18, 2008

5 Questions to Ask a Cheating Spouse

Can a marriage survive an infidelity? Certainly it can. Is it easy? No, of course not. That trust has been broken and it's going to take a long time to heal and build that trust up again. Here are 5 very important questions a spouse should ask their partner who has been unfaithful. The answers to these questions will help determine if the marriage can be salvaged or not.

  • Is this an isolated event or a pattern?
  • Is he or she genuinely sorry for what they have done or are they just sorry they got caught?
  • Do they honestly realize how much pain they have caused you?
  • Do they take ownership of their behaviour or do they make excuses for it?
  • Is this out of character for them or is it a common behaviour?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

am I the cause of the infidelity by denying my spouse all their sexual needs and desires? Or am I literally or figuratively turning my spouse down on a regular basis?

dejablues said...

this is of no help AT ALL

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